Part – 1
Introduction:
Hey there! Have you ever wondered why some people are super successful in life, like Virat Kohli, Lata Mangeshkar, and Steve Jobs, while others are still struggling to live a good life? Why are some people, even after being so-called successful, unhappy in life, while others, despite facing lots of failures, remain happy? And the main question: why can’t we be super successful in life like Virat and all? Is it luck that matters, or is there something hidden from us? Let’s figure it out. At the same time, if you haven’t read my earlier blog on success, please go through it as this is like a continuation of it.
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Let me ask you a Quality Question (QQ*). In the path of choosing your career, what was the thing that you loved: the process or the result? Which one will be in the primary position, and which one in the secondary? For example, if you have chosen your career as a doctor, do you love being a doctor (the result) or studying biology (the process)?
I promise this single question has the power to change your whole life. Many of you might say that being a doctor is the primary goal and studying biology is secondary. This is the game-changer—this is something that we all need to understand deeply. Let’s explore this concept further through The Success Quadrant given below.
The Success Quadrant
The above concept is called The Success Quadrant. Here, one axis represents the type of questions you ask yourself, and the other represents the types of actions you take. Let’s dissect each quadrant one by one, from the Dead Zone to the World Changers.
1. Dead Zone
Description: Have you ever seen people who always complain about their life, asking, “Why can’t I be successful?” or “Why is life so hard for me?” These individuals have given up all hope and take minimal or no actions at all to improve their situation, leading to stagnation and frustration. They are already caught up in a rat race, living just to fulfill their responsibilities and duties.
Consider the overside sweeper, the housemaid, or the frustrated corporate employee. They often think, “This is my destiny and it can’t be changed,” which further leads to low-quality questions and a low bias for action. This is the deadliest zone. DON’T BE HERE.
2. Hustler Zone
Description: I promise most of you will lie in this zone, so it’s very important to figure it out. Before moving further, please have an open mind and don’t take it personally until you’ve finished reading.
In this zone, people have a high bias for action and are very hardworking but lack the habit of asking quality questions. Here, you do what society expects you to do. Many people pursue the same sort of career, increasing competition and working harder.
You most probably choose what you like and not what you love (we will discuss this further because what you love is often not figured out and gets dumped away). This zone is characterized by pursuing a profession that promises good money, good social image, and financial stability. Here, only the result matters, and the process and hard work are often not considered.
In this zone, you love the result more than the process. Once the result is accomplished, you forget about the journey it took to get there. It’s like a monkey and a fish competing in tree climbing—where the monkey consistently gets to the top place while the fish struggles, hence lowering its self-image and end up lying in the Dead Zone. Even if you succeed you’ll always wait for holidays and retirement, and eventually, you’ll get tired of it.
Is this a bad zone? Not really. It is way better than the Dead Zone because at least you like what you do. But, dude, it’s not the best either. You are made for something big, which you will figure out further by asking quality questions.
Fantastic insights! Can’t wait to implement these strategies in my own journey.
Thank you!
Incredible read! Your practical advice is a game-changer.
Thank you, Ananya !
Great Analysis!
A indecisive person can find better way and clarity…and will surely take a best decision.
ya exactly! Thanks arya..
Outstanding post. Hey Prajwal, I can relate with you and as a writing coach I encounter several people who are in the dead zone. They need a lot of upliftment and whenever you will try to bring them to the next level they will again go back in the dead zone. So can you share some insights as to how as a coach I can help my students maintain themselves in the hustler zone and above without falling back into the dead zone? Waiting for your reply.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment and kind words! 🌟 To help your students stay in the hustler zone & above, try giving them a higher purpose. 🚀 This can keep them motivated and focused on their goals. Keep inspiring! 🙌
Thank you so much for your guidance.
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